I went though the same sort of situation. Theres no definite way of forcing yourself to come to terms with it (that I know of.) I spent a long while in the same place that you are in, without acting on anything. I dated a couple of boys, and eventually met a girl who really sparked my interest. I accepted that I was gay when I realized that it was something that I wanted, and that I was ready for. For now, I would say not to worry about it. If you really think you’re gay, then eventually something will happen with it. Don’t restrict yourself to only one gender or a label. Pay attention to the people you connect with, and go from there.